2016 writing exercise because why not?Posted: January 23, 2016
so, about a year ago, there was a list of questions floating around that was touted to make to random strangers fall in love.
The questions are designed to make those involved reveal a lot of very personal things, starting slowly and building up to more serious topics. Arranged in three sets, the questions start off fairly trival and get more serious as you enter the second and third set.
While I don’t really believe in the mambo jumbo above, I think they’re great as a writing and introspection exercise. A way to get to know myself better and keep on track with writing. So, for the next 36 weeks, I’ll be answering a questions a week. Starting this Sunday and we’ll see where we go from there.
Here are the questions in their entirety.
4. What do you value most in a friendship?
5. What is your most treasured memory?
6. What is your most terrible memory?
7. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
8. What does friendship mean to you?
9. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
10. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
11. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
12. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
1. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling …”
2. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share …”
3. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
4. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
5. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
6. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
7. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
8. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
9. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
10. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
11. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
12. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
So there we have it. woo hoo. exciting times